The New Year. For some it is a fresh start, and others, just an excuse to buy a new dress and spend a long night out to celebrate. We forget that, even though we all choose to handle the new year in very different ways, we are all going through the same procedure. It is much like all of the other events in the year.
January- a new year, a new start; the aim is to hope for the best for the upcoming year.
February- So we've started off the year with an open mind and you're already beginning to get fed up; how are you going to be able to last for the next year?!
March- We've managed to traipse through 2 months and hey, easter is coming soon, so we seem to be getting somewhere.
April- Spring begins and it looks like the British weather isn't all just wind and rain; we're beginning to see a few hints of sunshine, even if its only on a minimal level.
May- Spring continues and we begin to become aware of the comical value of the Eurovision Song Contest which really, shouldn't be so popular, but we just can't seem to help ourselves.
June- We finally begin to get some proper sunshine as hints of summer appear; half way through the year- that can't be that bad!
July- The days begin to get warmer and longer and you seem to have more of a life outside school and work- there is some sunshine left even when you arrive home in the evenings!
August- Time for a break! Many people holiday abroad and despite living in England, we actually begin to have some decent weather. The world seems a much better place.
September- Signs suddenly arise that summer is coming to an end. Only 3 months to Christmas- oh how the time flies when you're having fun!
October- Christmas suddenly seems so much closer and the year is coming to an end before you know it! The sunshine is no longer a regular visitor and the dull weather descends on the nation.
November- The days begin to get shorter and there seems to be no daylight when you've arrived home after a hard-working day. The depressing wind, rain and storms regularly visit, constantly reminding of the true British winter.
December- This is the month to do any last minute panic shopping for Christmas. Why oh why we put ourselves through this stress I will never know, seeing as most of the presents we buy in this time period are what we call "Unwanted Christmas Presents", something which I am very familiar with! (See the below blog post for more information on this matter).
The whole cycle repeats itself continuously and as we reach the end of December, we bring ourselves to think about the new year and whether we will bother to write resolutions for the coming year. I have noticed after a little research that, with age, the type of resolutions change over time.
For example, a younger person would include aims such as:
-To lose weight
-To give up smoking/drinking
-To spend less money on clothes
-To eat less junk food
-To do more exercise
-To stick to a hobby
These give us an idea as to what the younger generation do but can't help themselves no matter how discouraged they are by themselves and others around them! Many are related to heir health and appearance, which, lets face it, can't be too good if the person drinks heavily, smokes, eats junk food and doesn't exercise.
However, older people seem to have resolutions based more around their children. The odd few stay the same, but others are very different. For example:
-Becoming more eco-friendly
-To move house
-To try new hobbies
-Discipline the children
-Buy Christmas presents in advance
-Be more careful with money
as you may have noticed, these are much more useful, constructive and overall help the world rather than just themselves. Selfishness seems to have faded over time and shows that the person who wrote them was obviously more worried about their impact on the environment, the cost of their careless shopping and to develop a better life for their children.
To conclude, we have established that the News Years Resolutions you pick should be suited to your age, otherwise they would be pointless and ineffective. It is predicted that only 62% of people make new years resolutions and only 8% of these succeed! 24% of all people have failed every year with their new years resolutions - doesn't this show you that new years resolutions aren't overall very successful?
No this doesn't seem very persuasive writing but here are some tips to prove these statistics wrong and make your new years resolutions be effective.
1. Start small - these are more realistic and if you do well, these can always be extended for your benefit!
2. Pick something which will benefit you in some way - it's pointless picking something that's pointless otherwise you're not motivated to fulfil it!
3. Discuss them with friends and family - others may be able to pick areas of improvement better than you can. Also, it may be easier to achieve a new years resolution if others do it with you; more motivation means better results.
Good luck making your new year resolutions and good look in achieving! Keep me updated on your progress if you wish and please do the poll in relation to this post. Thank you.(: